Barbie Gets Real

Barbie Gets Real on her iPhone

Barbie Gets Real on her iPhone

Can Barbie Get Real?

For many years I wrote and spoke about body image and I had a few Barbie Dolls that traveled with me. During my speeches, I would hold them up and say, “I believe these dolls set a standard for perfection that is unattainable for any human and gives your young daughters the wrong idea about beauty.” I stated, “Barbie is mass produced and is stamped by Mattel, but you are fashioned by God, a designer original.  I strongly discouraged the ladies from buying Barbies for their children.

Tonya as a Barbie-ologist in 2005Tonya as a Barbie-ologist in 2005

Interviewers referred to me as “anti-Barbie.”

anti-barbie

Fast forward a decade, Barbie and I went on to other careers. Her more than me.  Recently, while cleaning out the attic, we came across a box of my speaking props. My granddaughters who, not surprisingly, had never been encouraged to play with Barbie, looked at me with saucer sized eyes and asked, “Grandma, why do YOU have Barbies?” and “Can we play with them?”

In the box, along with the traditional Barbies, was a “grandma” Barbie doll complete with crow’s feet, reading glasses, a larger waist and sensible shoes.

Barbie is getting a second chance at my house and Getting Real!

As my granddaughters played, I listened in on their game of make-believe and laughed as Grandma Barbie, sounding just like me, asked, “Who’s hungry?” “Who wants candy?” and “Do you want a dollar?” I told the girls. “I’ve seen in the news that Mattel has made Barbies that look more like real people, so…”

“Let’s try and find a doll to represent each person in our family.”

Our Barbie search turned into a plastic version of Finding Your Roots. Our vintage Grandpa doll was an eBay purchase and came from Los Angeles just like their real-ife Grandpa. After a fresh haircut, he was good to go.

Grandpa Barbie Gardening

Grandpa Barbie Gardening

 

Barbie Pancake Breakfast

 

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Grandma Barbie Baking

Our Search continued…

“Holiday Latina Barbie for your mother?”

I asked the girls while shopping online.

Latina Barbie

Holiday Latina Barbie as Ashley

“This can be Aunt Lindsay!”

they said holding up a beautiful doll from the thrift store.

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A beautiful thrift-store barbie as Aunt Lindsay

“Where else can you purchase a relative for just $3.99?” I asked them.

“Grandma, this looks just like Uncle Jeremy.”

The girls said while holding Dolphin-Magic Ken. He came with a surfboard and dog so they were bonuses.

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Uncle Jeremy as a Barbie doll

“Man-bun Barbie doesn’t look enough like Uncle Zac.” They lamented.

“We can use paint to add a beard,” I told them.

“Perhaps a thin sharpie will work for adding tattoos. I’m not sure how to add a nose ring, though.”

Fortunately for us, Zachary came for a visit

and helped us tattoo the man-bun Barbie.

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Zachary adding a tattoo to man-bun barbie

Our search for Long Lost Family continued as we found aunts on Amazon, Uncles at garage sales, cousins on eBay, and clothes for our naked relations on Etsy. I was extremely happy to find choices of Barbies with various skin-tones, hair colors, and body types.

We started an Instagram account, #BarbieGetsReal, so we can share our recreated family scenes using our new Barbies. One of our funniest moments happened when Grandma Barbie took her plastic granddaughters to a Justin Bieber doll concert. Our Justin doll had a little trouble standing up and the girls had fits of laughter to “baby, baby, baby oh.”

Fortunately, we captured it on video.

Our Barbie’s YouTube Channel

Mattel’s new Barbies are a better reflection of what my grandchildren see when they are in a crowd. Not a perfect reflection of everyday people, but so much better than the original fashion model Barbie. Sometimes in life, there are second chances and Barbie is getting one at my house. Apparently, friends CAN be bought and we are working on that. Let’s play!

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